We decided that maybe it is possible these things can begin to come regardless of whether remains have been found. That maybe purchasing a grave marker or head stone and placing something of the missing person's there might offer families a place to go on those special days of remembrance.
Some of us admitted, we are not big on grave visits...but at least once a year or more, families deserve the right to lay flowers at a memorial site. Or let balloons go. Or do whatever honors their family member with love and dignity. Just a thought. Tell us what you think.